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05.21.05

Hi, I'm curious about female orgasms. Most men have one orgasm and have to wait awhile before continuing sex. The first orgasm for men is more intense than any afterwards. Is this true for women? Since women have multiple orgasms, are they equally intense? What is a squirter and is it urine or orgasm that squirts? Do most women squirt?  Thanks.

Roy

Wow, did you chose the wrong person to ask about this topic.

"Hey, let's ask the spinster pixie about the boom shaka-laka!"

Hmm, okay, now let me google a bit here...

Apparently, there are two types of orgasms, according to www.achieving-female-orgasm.com:

"1. Sequential Multiples

"2. Serial Multiples

It's been a while since I've had the opportunity to, um, do field research in this area, but I'm going to hazard a guess that in the case of sequential multiples, it is probably more likely that the repeat orgasms could be as intense as the first, although they diminish in intensity at some point. In serial, they most likely decrease in intensity.

Honestly, I don't know. If I think back a bit, I believe that in my personal experience (and remember, I'm going back a long time here), repeaters are generally less intense than the first. Although, I very, very clearly remember at least two separate incidents where everything was A+ all night. Ahem.

As far as squirting, according to Alex Robboy, LSW:

"1) Some sexually stimulated women release fluid. This is not just a small amount of fluid, it is a lot of fluid. It soaks the bed or floor or kitchen cabinet. If you have experienced any large fluid release, you will know it.

"2) The fluid does not smell like urine and has a different chemical make-up from urine.

"Question What is this fluid?
There are two camps. One says that this fluid is urine. This camp asserts that there is no other cavity in the female body that could hold this fluid other than the bladder. Furthermore, they report that many women enjoy being sexual with a full bladder, therefore, frequently during intense stimulation, women loose control of their bladder muscles and pee.

"The second camp professes that this ejaculation is not pee. They state that this fluid, which is released by the woman is a form of female ejaculate, similar to the male ejaculate. As evidence, they site the fact that the fluid does not have the same chemical make-up of urine.

"Either way the 15% of the population who can do this report that they enjoy their 'fluid' ejaculations, so what does it matter."

And according to www.positivelysexual.com:

"Fluid Characteristics

"The ejaculate is very much like prostate fluid. It is usually clear, or milky and as thin as water. It does not have the look, smell or taste of urine. It is almost odorless. The taste varies, depending on the time of the month and diet, and possibly other factors, such as amount of stimulation received prior to ejaculating or time since the last ejaculation. It can vary from an almost honey sweet, sour, bitter, or a combination of these tastes.

"Even though it is ejaculated from the urethra, it is most definitely not urine. It is absolutely impossible to pee during a orgasm unless there is a weak pubococcygeus muscle. This is very important, and it is important for the female and her partner to both understand this. The pubococcygeus muscle contracts when terminating a stream of urine, and is the muscle which contracts during orgasm. This contraction helps prevent retrograde ejaculation (ejaculation back into the bladder), and of course prevents the bladder from draining during orgasm."

So, in order of answers:

I hope that helps.

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